LOVE IS IN THE AIR

It is February, the month of love. Love is in the air (February 2- February 16). Valentine's Day usually culminates the month as it is synonymous to being the Lovers day.  Most men find this as any other day.

Kenyan men, it has been said are lousy and icky lovers. They are less romantic and never know how to handle women. They use archaic loose vibes and never really give Kenyan women what they want (I also don't know what Kenyan women want). They like using a wing-man who apparently can devour before or after if they are have unchecked carnal desires.

And do Kenyan men use pick up lines? Pick up lines require some expertise while saying them. It is called the art of delivery. You may have the words but your tonal and variation may make you a coward of a person to look bad to your intended bait. As such you may make an idiot of yourself. You need confidence (not overconfidence) and you can forget about this hackneyed thing of pick up lines.

I once read somewhere that most men attack women from the rear when they want to approach them. Women however approach men from the front. The art of seduction by Robert Greene does not help much if you are a coward of a man like I used to be. Confidence (not overconfidence) is a weapon most ladies find worthy in men. And it works well if you can keep the conversation rolling. Women are wired differently and they may be complex and hard to deal with. I also don't know why ladies think all men are players and dogs.

On my side, I hate when I have to churn out stories while with a lady. Ladies have to take charge. Talk about their men and make me feel jealous, their struggles and future (I revere those who are optimists and gogetters). Reason why ladies talk too much is because of the Foxp2 protein and they have four and not two lips. They make women talk 13000 words more than men in a day. Men do an average of 7000 words and like walking a lot though.

Foxp2 is a protein also known as the  "Language protein" and its abundance in the human brain is the reason why people talk a lot that is women to be precise. 

I am aiming at getting to read "Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps" and "Why Men Lie and Women Cry" both co-authored by Allan and Barbara Pease.

Romance it is said goes hand in hand with height. Polish anthropologist, Dr Boguslaw Pawlowski, found that - in an ideal relationship - trust, money and respect are less important than the height difference ratio 1 to 1.09. His study in 2004 found that, to ensure marital bliss, a man needs to be 1.09 times taller than his partner. If you are a dude who has been having unsuccessful relationships, think twice. It could be you have a flair for taller women or those that are within your height.

When a woman loves, even if a man is cheating, she stays. She knows what that man is capable of. That in my opinion is not real love. It is desperation. If you are a lady with such a man. He is treating you like trash. He thinks you can go nowhere without him. Run like yesterday, for you will have noone to blame in the event you get an STI.

Women are more intuitive and perceptive in as much as they love to talk a lot. As such they can easily spot the difference between the words you are saying and the way your body is reacting while you are talking.If you are lying, they easily note it. Again during a face to face conversation while standing, women look at men using a wide peripheral vision. This means that while they may pretenting to be shy and submissive and looking into a man eyes sparingly, they are also usually looking at a man groin and checking him out but very subtly and covert.

If you're a man, remember that women are reading and decoding your body language whether you realise it or not, so learning how it's done can give you an equal footing. 

I know women are better when it comes to reading emotions, manipulating the situation and using an appropriate lie since men are not good at detecting whether a person is lying or not. And not just lying. Women can tell complicated lies as opposed to simple lies men tell that are easily detectable. So, if your woman cheats and you are not sure, she can do it again knowing too well she has to just coin a brilliant lie.

In those merry-go rounds and chama meeting women attend, don't they discuss about how their men perform in bed? Some women are crafty and hire money hungry handsome college graduates to service them while they lie to their men they are out for bonding in some unknown location. 

Since it is the month of love. I want to enter the intimate zone of many ladies as possible. If I find a lady whose pupils will be dilating while am giving her loose vibes. Then I will be sure that whatever I am reading is not a lie. It says that, "Women's pupils dilate faster than men's to create rapport with what their brain sees as another person's eyes."

And when it comes to getting effective results while on a date, women should wear red lipstick that has some licentious FX on the average bloke. It is usually an aphrodisiac that make men go wild even if you are not hell pretty. 

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