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Sunday, 22 November 2015

LIFE LESSONS


I have been forced to quit blogging because of reasons pertaining to my other ambition of never failing in exams again (UON ushered my first taste of academic failure). I have decided henceforth to give blogging a wide berth as I make way for a new lifestyle that will be more hectic and require a rote that I meet targets within the shortest time possible and also work with the swiftness of a gazelle in my aspirations of a debut in being a financial analyst. 

CFA is hectic. You need to be very smart to go about this course which is also very thorough. As a matter of fact, being behind schedule in terms of reading has contributed in yours truly having to give blog posting some form of discontinuity until that point in time in life when the course work will have eased till the wee stages of completion. Whether I will pass the exam or not, something remains for sure, it has taught me a lot in terms of self-discipline. Getting the knowledge is far more enriching as it makes you realize you are a rookie in the financial domain. If life was only tied to passing exams and you sure are going to live a life of merry, then that would be a reason as to why most would be passing the same. But the current world has reinvented itself. You no longer need to pass exams to make it in life like it is an eventuality. You need to find something different that will segregate you from the rest. You can be an actor, play football like the football magician Messi, sell your wares- master the skill and own a flourishing chain of businesses many would want to franchise.

With dedication and patience, everything is possible. Hope that the study timetable I have put in place will be a reason why I will be smiling at the end of a six hour exam that awaits me mid-June in the coming year. As of now, I am pursuing my course of choice. This is a study whose intent was conjured even before I went to campus more than five years ago. Only that the start was unveiled this year.

So what has life taught me up until this point in time?

The first thing has to do with discovery of the self. The greatest investment is to invest in yourself. You never will regret it. What you aim at achieving is only curtailed by the setbacks you create at your own volition. Making important and instrumental decisions earlier on ensures you have enough time to achieve that which you wanted to accomplish early. You become a master of your destiny at the end of it all. Society also, has a way of aiding in that quest. It’s up to you to take the mantle and decide to change your serendipity using all the available machinery you can surmount be it technical, mechanical or electronic. Again, it is of paramount necessity to ensure that people play a crucial role in the course of your achievement because it is they that matter. They can break or make you.

Free-rider mentality.

Who does not want freebies? It’s human nature to love free products and services, which also comes at a social cost. The price of anything that is free or cheap is that the worth you get from it is never satiating as there is always a compromise on standards and quality. Until you develop the taste and preference of finer things in life, living the normal Jane and Joe everyday life will be your eventual respite. They say, when you want something, go for it. Like the Veblen goods, it’s mostly important that life be pegged on continuous development. The most satisfying things in life are worth the penny you spend on the acquisition of the same. The more you spend, however may not be directly related to the much you expect. Life lessons will open your eyes as to what is good and what is not. But at the end of the day, it is also important to take advantage of freely available forms of development. They help save you a lot in terms of time and money. Saving means more wealth. Economics 101 in practice. Right.

Saving

The value of having a saving culture is directly related to prosperity. Though the time value for money is always the inverse of saving, there is greater value in saving some pence no matter how little. The little you save become more and sooner or later, you slowly realize you dream. Those who save really cushion themselves against the rigors of a financial turmoil that is usually unprecedented on a rainy day. There is surety in having a savings culture. From saving, you can turn the little into an investment stream or find worthy advice on what you can engage in with the little. Like the Chinese say, “The journey of a thousand miles stars with a single step.” Quit that unnecessary consumption and spenditure. Punish yourself sometimes so that you do not indulge in that which robs you of your hard earned money. A penny saved is penny earned. For in saving there is a way of evading debt.

Working

Working as opposed to staying idle is something that is very important. Each day, you see different people (as you commute or walk the streets) and observe queer tendencies that are developing gradually. You may sometimes be disinterested in you work looking for an option but the reality is that it is better to stick around for some time. You never know, just when you are on the verge of quitting, is when some godsend comes. However, also staying does not guarantee that you will change much in life. When you are experiencing periods of stagnation without much progress, it is important to review your strategy. The most important workplace in the world is the aura you create for yourself. Working for yourself is tentatively the best thing in life. You get satisfaction if the results are progressive. Soon or later, you gain ground and have the nerves to do just about anything. Life is about moving forward. When you become a stickler to the status quo, you lose a lot.

Blogging/ Writing

Hitherto, my thoughts on this was that I would make it just like that. This is hell. This though, caught my eye and really is a reflection of what I am experiencing personally,
 “I am like a violinist whose ear is true, but whose fingers refuse to reproduce precisely the sound he hears within.”- Gustave Flaubert.

There are times when as a writer, doing my blog post, am forced to steal one or two phrases because I lack the diction of how to give my all when another has done it easily much to my envy. Writing is one of the best things life has bestowed upon mankind. When you write, you enter into a world of the unknown then progressively enter the world of the known. Thoughts are usually skewed and muddled before piecing up everything. The only recourse is that you are never alone. There is always that déjà vu moment. Writing is addictive, like Indian hemp, you need a rehab to stop the devastating effects of its hallucinations from making you habituated. In fact, getting an inkling is itself a retrospection about how you view where you are headed in general. Thus everything about writing has a muse in it. Like a duck you remain calm on the surface, but underneath, you paddle like hell. Obviously every writer or pen pusher has a predilection and creed.

Studying

There is no procedure on how to study effectively. One man’s poison is another man’s meat. As such, it goes without doubt that the tactics one employs may not necessarily work for another. Studying for exams is a complex affair. However the major facet of it in intensive reading. How one peruses is ideally best determined by him or her. For purposes of this writing, I also have just started to muster the hours I am productive. There is always a brighter side to gaining knowledge.  The best thing about is that you never lose it. It is the only possession that a brigand can never rob you, unless you are incapacitated. So knowledge is power. The only inhibition is that to acquire it, you sometimes need enough backs in this capitalistic world. Studying even for leisure is fair enough. So getting informed is an enriching venture after all.

Entertainment

There is no enough measure of entertainment. The definition of the same also varies. What makes one lively makes another sullen and predisposed. However, there is this thing called ale that inebriates. Boozing is not bad if it does not the body and brain devastatingly. However, when it is not done right, it fails to elicit its intended purpose. Drinking cheap liquor has devastating consequences. The downside of it is in the fact that you are not able to sometimes control your mental sanity. You end up spitting vile or acting incongruous as opposed to being sane. Those are the times you find yourself in dingy places where the average person has no better form of purpose other than drinking away all the worries and stigma away. You may end up drinking illicit concoctions, or worse find yourself under the arm of a seductress who you took advantage of or the inverse and you spend like a nouveau riche thinking you have but only leading yourself to obscurity. At best, drinking fine liquor with brand names work out fine. You never wake up with a hangover after a few tots. Over indulging in the same is comparable to taking cheap liquor.
Avoiding alcohol when you can at all costs is the surest way out of trouble.

Maybe, I should have tweaked this life lessons a little bit to give the reflection of the everyday guy. But this is the best that I can give in my current state. Like I have said earlier, I serve all the purposes in this blog. I am the number reader of the content that is available on it and also the editor, the graphic designer, web designer and all that. I am taking a brief leave to concentrate on my studies as earlier intimated maybe until next year if I will not have the push from some inner calling to write.

Na juu ya hiyo story, Buda Boss Sinakafunge juu kamenyuria.

Hasta La Vista Baby.

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